there's a rule

 "We know there's a rule, if you don't know it, now's the time to learn it, אישה כשרה עושה את רצון בעלה a pious woman has an ideal of doing the will of her husband. It's an ideal, to make her husband happy, to cooperate and to obey, as much as possible. A pious Jewish woman tries to obey." Rabbi Miller, tape #3, 46:20.